If you’re a parent or photographer who often snaps pictures of your kids—whether for family keepsakes or professional shoots—you know the process isn’t always smooth sailing. Children can get fidgety, tired, or even resistant to being in front of the camera. That’s where a post-shoot ritual can be a game-changer. Think of it as a way to thank them for their effort, reinforce positive behaviour, and make the whole experience something they look forward to.

One example of a great post-shoot ritual? A trip to their favourite spot for nuggets and ice cream! Not only does this act as a reward, but it also transforms the photography session from a chore into an event filled with happy associations.

Why a Post-Shoot Ritual Works

1. Expressing Gratitude: Photoshoots, especially longer ones, can be hard work for kids. Smiling on cue, following directions, and being patient are skills that take effort. A post-shoot ritual shows them that their time and cooperation are valued. It’s a way to say, “Thank you for being awesome today!”
2. Building Positive Associations: Children thrive on routines and rituals, especially when they’re associated with something fun. By tying a reward to the photoshoot, you’re creating a positive association with the entire experience. Next time, they’ll be more excited to participate.
3. Creating Memories Beyond the Photos: While the photos capture one kind of memory, the ritual adds another layer. These after-shoot moments become part of your family’s storytelling tapestry. Years later, your kids might fondly remember how every photoshoot ended with a celebratory outing.

How to Create Your Own Post-Shoot Ritual

If nuggets and ice cream aren’t your thing, don’t worry! The best rituals are personalised to your family’s preferences. Here are a few ideas to get you started:

• Snack Stop: Head to a favourite café, ice cream shop, or favourite pizza spot.
• Activity Adventure: Visit a playground, arcade, or park.
• Home Celebration: Set up a post-shoot movie night with popcorn or bake cookies together.
• Token of Thanks: Give them a small surprise gift, like a new book or a toy they’ve been eyeing.

The key is consistency. Choose something simple but special, and make it a part of your routine every time there’s a photoshoot.

Shot on 35mm film, Canon AE-1 50mm (and yes, nuggets and ice cream were enjoyed after)

It’s Not a Bribe—It’s a Thank You

It’s important to note that a post-shoot ritual isn’t meant to be a bribe or a threat if the shoot doesn’t go as planned. Photoshoots can be unpredictable, and that’s perfectly normal. The ritual is about celebrating the effort your kids put in, regardless of whether every shot went smoothly. It’s also not meant to replace the intrinsic motivation kids have to enjoy the experience of a fun shoot together. Instead, it’s a way to add an extra layer of joy and appreciation, making the entire process more memorable and enjoyable for everyone involved.

Tips for Making the Ritual Even More Meaningful

• Involve Your Kids in the Decision: Ask them what they’d like to do after a photoshoot. Their input will make them feel more invested.
• Keep It Manageable: The reward doesn’t have to be extravagant. Even small gestures, like a shared milkshake or an extra 30 minutes of playtime, can feel magical to a child.
• Celebrate Their Efforts: During the ritual, acknowledge specific things they did well during the shoot. For example, “I loved how patient you were while we got that last shot” or “You had the best fun today—you made the photos so special!”

Turning a Ritual into a Tradition

As you incorporate your ritual after each shoot, it will become something your kids look forward to, not just as a reward but as a bonding experience with you. These moments of connection remind them that their efforts are appreciated and that their role in creating beautiful memories is meaningful. The result? Happier photoshoots, better cooperation, and a tradition your family will cherish for years to come.

So next time you pull out the camera, let your kids know there’s a fun treat waiting for them afterward. Who knows? That promise of nuggets and ice cream might just bring out their best smiles yet!

How do I know? Because my kids now ASK to go on shoots because they know it will be low-pressure and we will visit McDonalds on the way home.